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Deaconess Änne Hauptmeier turns 100
Deaconess Änne Hauptmeier celebrates her 100th birthday on 19 April. The Sarepta sister looks back on her life with satisfaction. Even if it went differently than planned. Growing up in the Lübbecker Land region, she helped out on her parents' farm as a girl. Milking cows, feeding pigs and picking potatoes - little Änne really enjoyed the farm work. "It was exhausting, but very nice. I had a wonderful childhood," she summarises.
As a young woman, she fell in love with a man from the village called Fritz. "I was so happy when he returned from the war in one piece." The couple married in 1948. But their happiness did not last long: Just four months after the wedding, Fritz died suddenly on the Sunday of the dead. A world collapsed for the 25-year-old widow. A photo on the chest of drawers still reminds her of her deceased husband today.
Support in the sisterhood
"To get over my pain, my aunt, who was also a deaconess at Bethel, advised me to become a Sarepta sister," says Änne Hauptmeier. She found support and new courage to face life in the diaconal community. "My training and work as a nurse distracted me." A new life had begun for her. Änni Hauptmeier's professional life was varied: as a nurse, she worked in different areas, for example in the children's hospital, on the neurological ward and in psychiatry. She particularly remembers the respectful cooperation between doctors and nurses.
When her parents became ill and in need of care, the deaconess had herself transferred to her home country. During this time, she worked as a Sarepta nurse at Wittekindshof in Bad Oeynhausen, caring for people with disabilities. After work, she looked after her family. It was only five years later, after the death of her parents, that she returned to Bielefeld. In her free time, Änne Hauptmeier loved travelling - whether it was to France, Switzerland, Denmark or Holland. "I saw a lot and collected wonderful memories."
Until a few years ago, she was known among her fellow sisters for her hospitality. "Sister Änne always served biscuits and cappuccino," remembers Deaconess Irmgard Bockhorst. She is her main contact person in the sisterhood and has accompanied the birthday celebrant for a long time. The community has always been close to the heart of Änne Hauptmeier, who is also celebrating her 65th anniversary of being ordained as a deaconess this year. After the reforms in the 1990s and the associated new order of life for the sisters, deaconess Änne Hauptmeier made it a matter close to her heart to build bridges between the generations, says Sister Irmgard Bockhorst.
In traditional costume but without a bonnet
Her close connection to her community is visible in her blue sister's uniform, which she never takes off, even after work. "The only thing I don't wear anymore is the bonnet, but only because I can't do it on my own," explains the soon-to-be 100-year-old deaconess. As styling her hair also became more difficult, she had her hair cut. "I always had long hair, it was very difficult for me," she says wistfully. As she got older, her hearing and eyesight deteriorated. "I used to enjoy painting a lot, but I can't do that any more. But I can still knit blind," she explains.
On 19 April, Deaconess Änne Hauptmeier celebrates with her Sarepta sisters and relatives at Haus Hannah in Bethel. "Sister Änne has a very lively family life and has a lot of contact with her nieces and nephews - now in the fourth and fifth generation," reveals Irmgard Bockhost, who is organising the 100th birthday. "I don't want presents or flowers," emphasises Änne Hauptmeier. The money should rather be donated to poor people. "I have everything," she adds modestly. Just a Black Forest gateau - that would make her happy.
Text: Christina Heitkämper | Photo: Gunnar Kreutner
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Deaconess Änne Hauptmeier celebrates her 100th birthday on 19 April. After the early death of her husband, she joined the Sarepta Sisterhood and became a deaconess. She found new courage to face life in her work as a nurse at Bethel. The diaconal community is very close to her heart.
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