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The boy who learned to walk in Bethel
Even the longest journey begins with the first step. Artem is now on his way, but it took a long time before he could set off. The 13-year-old boy from Ukraine has severe mental and physical disabilities. He cannot speak and spent his whole life in a wheelchair or lying in bed before he had to flee the war in his home country in March 2022. He came to Bethel with more than 100 other children and young people who were also disabled. Artem learnt to walk so well there that he now regularly goes for walks. Always at his side: volunteer Christian Götze and his rough-haired dachshund Oakley.
In Ukraine, Artem lived in an institution for seriously ill children and young people until the start of the war. His mother visits him occasionally in Bethel, but the Bielefeld Youth Welfare Office has taken over his guardianship. To protect the boy, this report is only possible in agreement with the youth welfare office on the condition that his face is not visible and his real name is not mentioned. Artem actually has a different name.
"I want to help him on his way into life, because Artem should also have the chance to see something of the world."
When Christian Götze takes the time to talk to us, he talks with a mixture of admiration and disbelief about the staff at the Bethel children's and youth hospice. They nursed Artem back to health for eight months. "He was in a wheelchair when he came to Bethel, he was weak and cramped," reports Christian Götze. Thanks to intensive care and a variety of therapies, Artem's condition improved and eventually he was even able to get out of his wheelchair and take his first steps. "It's amazing what the people at the hospice have achieved with him," says Christian Götze, "he has made huge progress. It's a miracle." Artem now lives at House Mamre and is attending school for the first time: the Mamre Patmos School.
Christian Götze is a passionate rider and was interested in therapeutic riding when he met Artem in Bethel in the summer of 2022. And decided to support him. "But it was another three months before I could get started, because I first had to provide a police clearance certificate and there were discussions with the people in charge." While Christian Götze talks, Artem sits on his lap, cuddles up to his big friend and beams with joy: today is finally Christian Day again. Every Friday after work, the volunteer comes to House Mamre to visit the boy. They then go for a walk. Christian Götze sings the song "Wir ziehen froh und zufrieden durch die Lande" (We wander the countryside happy and content), Artem hums along and Oakley the dachshund trots alongside. They have a wheelchair with them, but Artem walks further and further.
Christian Götze is 54, the father of two children aged 22 and 17 and works in sales at a company specialising in equestrian fashion. He is involved in the Catholic parish in his home town of Enger in the district of Herford. "I need people around me like the air I breathe," he says, "and if I can make them smile, that's a gift for me. It's the same with Artem. When I'm with him, I'm happy." For him, Fridays are finally Artem's day again. In the more than 15 months he has been with Artem, Christian Götze has got to know and love his little friend. So much so that he can no longer imagine not supporting him. "I want to help him on his way into life," he says, "because Artem should also have the chance to see something of the world."
Text: Philipp Kreutzer | Picture + Video: Matthias Cremer
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Artem has been in a wheelchair all his life. The 13-year-old boy from Ukraine has severe mental and physical disabilities. In March 2022, he fled his home country to Bethel with other children. It was only here that Artem learnt to walk so well that he now regularly goes for walks. Volunteer Christian Götze accompanies him.
